Why? BECAUSE we are going to have FUN, fun too this Summer!
This is second post in The Cr8joi Summer Series. If you missed the first post in the series, GET READY FOR SUMMER, you can find it here.
One thing, I know from my career as an Educator + Mommyhood = these chiterlings need some level of structure. Children thrive on routine, 365. You can switch up the schedule to match the season.
The secret to managing children without a lot of stress is structure. Structure that comes in the form of a sketeton routine and/or schedule.
Structure means sanity for all, Mommy included!
If you are saying “OMG, Mrs. Cr8! It’s Summer for goodness sakes!”
Just hear me all the way out.
Place craft supplies in a tablecloth table or picnic style outside and LET THEM CR8! I think some parents get so caught up on the mess that they miss the beauty of creating. Don’t worry if this stresses you out, that’s what you have me for! Mrs. Cr8, the Mommy Teacher Expert, at your service! Let’s goooooo!
Get ouuuuut! Summer weather is meant to be enjoyed! The beauty of warm weather is you can even enjoy a few rain drops. Block of daily time to spend some quality time outdoors. Or you can take a page out my Mommy’s book, load up the cooler with drinks and a pack of hotdogs. Throw the buns and snacks on the top of the cooler and stay outside all day!
Don’t forget the sunblock! The end.
Click here for an example of a simple outdoor set-up for littles.
Chances are there is a Summer Learning Packet from the school. Or maybe there are a few things that you or your child’s teacher noticed can use some extra practice time. Give it a few minutes a few days a week instead of a brutal looooong session and watch those skills improve.
If the school does not give out a Summer Learning Packet, here’s what I recommend:
MORE importantly, finding a way address any learning goals and/or gaps + keep the child engaged and wanting to learn over the Summer should be the main priority.
If you need more ideas on Preventing the Summer Slide, check out these blog posts:
Easy Ways To Implement Summer Learning At Home
If you want me to create a Summer Learning Plan, specifically for your child(ren) email me to book a call eboni@cr8joi.com. Why be overwhelmed when I can help you?!
Make it simple Mommy! Pick one chunk of time everyday and designate that as reading time. What time of day are your nerves most frayed? When do you need a breather? That can be quiet reading time! But there are a few things you need to prepare ahead of time.
Do you have a child who hates reading? You might find this post helpful-
Why Your Child Does Not Like to Read + What You Can Do About It
Open up the game closet/cabinet. If you don’t have one this Summer is a great time to pull all the games together in one spot. When I say games, I mean ol’ school games, like cards and board games, not games like Nintendo or Roblox.
There’s a time and a place for individual partner and group games. Games you play with, not screens.
Let’s think of ol’ school games in three categories- solo, partner, and group games. Here are a few examples to get your wheel’s churning:
What difference does it make if a game is for an individual, partner, or group? Well it can help you A LOT Mommy!
Have you ever told the children, “GO PLAY A GAME!” Only to find them bickering and crying a few minutes later.
This is when knowing what’s in your game arsenal comes in handy. If the siblings are bickering everyone can go to their respective spots and play a game. It’s still game time! Or depending on your patience level, they might work through an earlier disagreement with a partner or group game. Maybe there’s a playdate or a friend comes over and the kids are being awkward and need to warm up, whip out a partner game.
Check out this blog post if you need more non-screen ideas.
Make all the games in your game stash work to everyone’s advantage, especially yours Mommy! 😉
Free time, means just that! Time to just be free to do what you want! Free time is a chunk of unstructured time, let the children find their own things to get into. Share your exceptions and boundaries ahead of time to prevent any misunderstandings.
Establishing boundaries and expectations is an essential step because . . . KIDS!
Notice, the Core Schedule Ideas chart did not include SCREEN TIME. Free time is where screen time fits in. If the kids want to play on their devices and chat with friends, FREE TIME is THAT time!
The best thing about structuring free time this way is it creates a window of time for the screens. The children will find other things to occupy themselves without their devices during other parts of the day.
AND it makes the clock the bad guy, not you!
C’mon structure! Give them what they want and what they need!
Hobbies and learning new skills are great things to add to your list of Summer Intentions. To make the intention setting process even easier, I created a Reflection. Use this Reflection for each child and even yourself. There’s something about putting pen to paper that makes things happen. Just click the graphic below for the Reflection printable.
Have the child write their own (if they are old enough). Maybe even save their Reflections over the years. Use in whatever way you find helpful.
CLICK THE HERE FOR YOUR PRINTABLE REFLECTION.
The kids will be full of hobby ideas. If not, even more reason to get one started! You can find all kinds of extra-curricular classes on OUTSCHOOL. I’m almost certain somebody on there can help your child with their hobby, if you don’t have time, patience, or expertise.
Here are a few seed ideas for skills. I suggest you and the child think of the skill together since the children will need your help. I’m pretty sure you have a very specific life skill comes to mind with each child.
I could go on forever but you get the idea! We are raising humans who will one day live on their own. We want them to thrive and be able to take care of themselves.
There will be so many places to go and see once school is out. But being out in the real world can get quite expensive, especially if you are headed out a few times a week.
I’ll make it simple for you, these 3 places can #cr8joi for all summer-
Think of these three places as your affordable Summer 3-step. 🙂
CLICK HERE FOR YOUR PRINTABLE SUMMER SCHEDULE
Plan for some G0-To Meals + Snacks: Something about school letting out, releases the children’s stomachs. Check out this reel for the Summer Snack Set-Up.
If you are like me, something about Summer makes me NOT want to be tethered to the daggone kitchen. It’s my summer too! Plot out a few Go-To Meals + Snacks to ease your Mom brain.
Weekly Treat: Everyone can look forward to a yummy treat. Think s’mores or ice-cream, maybe Saturday Mornings with special cereal (and crafts of course). Baking a new recipe or DIY popsicles. Let your creative hungry children lead the way on this one! Their sweet tooths will lead you to the weekly treat!